I Want THIS for YOU in 2023!!! ♥️🫶🏻✨
My life today is far from perfect, but it is so much different than it used to be. Better. More expansive. More possibilities. True and authentic to who I am as a person. I’m proud of myself and who I am and how I am living.
Before, years ago when I used to drink alcohol (it feels so good to be able to say it like that!!!), I was in a CYCLE of COLLAPSE. What I mean by that, is that I drank alcohol on most nights, so whatever growth or goodness I managed create by day, seemed to be swept away by the actions of the night. I was essentially running in place. I would wake up feeling terrible physically, mentally, and emotionally. Then I would spend all my energy that day trying to get back to regular, to come home that night only to set myself back by drinking again. Rinse and repeat. For years.
While I was still somehow miraculously able to create positive aspects and outcomes in my life, largely this cycle of collapse prevented me from putting together any significant consistent time of forward motion and traction. It was hard to create a new relationship, a new project or venture, or other new habits when inevitably I would always backslide into a puddle of despair and fear and consequences from my drinking behavior.
Towards the end of my drinking days, I remember pleading with God for *new problems.* I was so sick of my drinking cycle. I was so tired of showing up as a fraction of myself. I was completely fatigued by having the SAME DISCUSSION OVER AND OVER AND OVER. I knew there would be problems and challenges in any phase of life whether I was drinking or not. I specifically asked for an elevated set of new problems, and that is exactly what I received.
I won’t paint you a picture of perfection, tulips, and roses in the sphere of transformation, healing, and growth. I also won’t tell you that anything worth doing has to be difficult or burdensome. What I can say is that the brain I have cultivated today can SEE that the problems I have today are NEW and BIGGER and an UPGRADE to the same old song and dance I kept playing before. So even though there are problems, I already have cultivated a sense of victory. I asked for this. I wanted different and more and better, and I have exactly that.
What this cycle of collapse is showing me today, is that now I have an opportunity to build my capacity to keep going. Now that I don’t drink any more, guess what? I NO LONGER COLLAPSE REGULARLY AND CONSISTENLY IN MY LIFE!!! It’s truly a miracle!!! But NOW I have found that my nervous system isn’t used to this blank canvas on which to freely roam. My body doesn’t know what to do when it gets to JUST KEEP GOING!!! Weird, right??? My body and my mind are used to running in place, but now I’m in the business of covering miles. Which means that I must build endurance. And get a new map that covers more area. And make sure I have more water. See what I mean? New problems. I’m here for them.
I want this for you. I do not believe that we were put on this earth only to struggle, fight, and die. I believe we were put on earth to use our struggles to grow and evolve. I believe that we can actually MOVE ON from our burdens so we can graduate to more interesting ones.
If you are ready to write a new story this year, one guaranteed way to make that happen is to work with me. Coaching is truly powerful. Any time you can invite an objective set of eyes to look at your life and support you to move forward, it can be beneficial. I am an expert when it comes to doing your internal work in a way that really shows up in your outer world. I have done it for myself, and I have supported my incredible clients to do it for themselves, too.
Are you ready to graduate to your next phase? I want that for you in 2023. Join me. Book a FREE CALL TODAY!!! xoxo k
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